Is it a good idea to subject your new love interest to rational evaluation when you are so obviously well suited and feel so in love for the first time in years. When you wake up thinking about them and when you read their messages to you in the sound of their voice, does this mean that you are made for each other and that because the excitement is at a high level that all is right and that you seem as though you are made for each other?
There are no rational considerations that you can lay claim to another daters love or insist that that your love is rational or well intended or even accepted. The height of love and passion can be a heady experience and it can blind you to the flaws of others. This height of passion can blind you to reality and cause temporary insanity and oh what a wonderful exciting feeling that can be. When dating on 121dates.com enjoy the experience but take time to get to know each other before rushing into life changing commitments.
Many daters will have experienced the end of a relationship, `just because!’ Did that person change or were the warning signs there all along and perhaps at the time you overlooked them because you were so happy to have found a dater who made you feel happy and excited. There is no irrationality involved in ceasing to love a person whom one once loved immensely, although the person is no different to the person you were once head over heels in love with.
Looking at love in a rational manner is sensible and is a safety valve that should apply to anyone who is making a commitment with another dater. Rationality concerns your interests, not the interests of other daters, family or friends. Many relationships break up because daters have fallen out of love. It is usually in your best interest and most logical thing to do to end the relationship.
If your love puts your dating partner on a pedestal and makes them part of a fairy tale which ignores their flaws or differences and makes you conflicted about your love for them, then you are in the grip of crazy, irrational love. This can feel dangerous and thrilling but is also exhausting and heartbreaking, and choosing to call it quits can be hard. But staying in a toxic relationship means your mental and physical wounds may never heal. As the old saying goes, holding onto broken love cuts you deeply. If you stay, you will keep hurting. If you walk away with your head held high, you will hurt, but eventually you will heal and have the chance to meet a more suitable love on 121dates.com.
