August 13, 2020
For a loving relationship to flourish and be honest and real it must be grounded in reality and an accurate perception of each senior dating partner, not fantasy, fairy tale or illusion. Love fuelled by a projection of a saint-like idealisation of a dater on a pedestal is bound to dwindle once real life starts to take over and the image of perfection disintegrates and the real person, with flaws, is left in its place. Sustained only by fantasy of fairy tale happy ever after illusion, love that idealises the beloved is void of rationality. In a relationship love must be consistent with your...