As a single I spend a lot of timekeeping up with current affairs and watching the news to keep up with all the world events.

I do find some things very confusing and the latest quandary is what is a party and what isn't a party.the latest fines that have been issued by the police to the UK MPs, Prime Minister and Chancellor have left me puzzled. 

We were all told by these people to obey the law, stay at home and not to meet up with other people to stop the spread of Covid 19 and save the NHS and yet the very people who made the laws felt that it was ok to break those same laws. However a five-minute cake cutting, singing happy birthday and having drinks is not considered a party. 

More serious events like the birth of a baby, the death of a loved one and being together in their last moments were not allowed as it was the law, as was the case with single dates on 121dates.com. 

Those of us who were obeying the law and suffering from isolation, our law makers were having a party that wasn't a party. 

I am confused now as to what a party is! As someone who has been to many parties in my time I know that a party is a gathering of people who do not usually socially distance and as singing was banned in places like churches having an office party to celebrate a birthday, I am sure that 'Happy Birthday' was sung at some point in the gathering with lots of carefree laughter and talking. 

Fines have been issued and so they should have been. Perhaps those fines should be donated to the NHS which was under such pressure at the time.

Shameful behaviours should not be tolerated at any stage and that includes when you areon dates or at a party. ensure that your morals are honourable at any stage of life and that includes dating other singles on 121dates.com.