Online dating is very safe and I have met many lovely senior daters on 121seniordating.com and online dating is very convenient and an east way to meet other senior daters in your local area.

However when you are in a relationship you need to be aware of red flags that indicate behaviour that is either dishonest and not desirable. These red flags are listed.

1. proclivity for talking bad about others, this is not only depressing to listen to but can be an indication that your date seems to be a person who is always negative about others. Are they speaking badly about you too?
2. Never taking responsibility and blaming others, this behaviour of never admitting that they make mistakes and have faults
3. Dishonesty is a betrayal of trust and it means that other things that they say or do can not be trusted and means that you are suspicious of every thing that your date says or does.
4. Repeatedly showing up late, Being late is not only rude but shows a lack of consideration and means that you date has no respect for your time.
5. Not apologizing when they ought to.  the lack of an apology means that they lack consideration for your feelings and they feel that your feelings are irrilvent and do not matter to them.
6. Financially irresponsible, does you date always expect you to pay on the date. this is a red flag that cannot be ignored as it could mean that they are using you to fund their social life.
   
7. Flirting with others. No-one wants to watch their date flirting with others. It is disrespectful and may leave you feel that you are unimportant. I would definately not agree to another date with this senior dater. Flirting with someone while on a date with someone else shows that they are not loyal and you are possibly dating someone who cheats.
8. Talking about their ex. Not being able to leave the past in the past indicates that your date has not dealt with the hurts in past relationships and that they need time to heal before starting another relationship on 121seniordaings.com
9. Taking calls or texting during a date, is rude and leaves you feeling isolated and ignored and no-one needs that on a date.
10. Badly treating waiters. Being rude to anyone should be a red flag as if they are rude to others it could be your turn next .
11. Failure to fulfil promises, means that they do not take their own promises seriously and that means they could do the same to you and leave you disappointed with broken promises.  
12. Their actions do not match their words. this is a matter of bragging with nothing to back up their words which is  a of a person who brags but with no substance. beware of a relationship with this senior single.
13. Excessive or inappropriate use of drugs or alcohol. No-one needs a drug addict as life is stressful enough. This could mean emotional instability and a possible violent personality.
14. Exaggerating achievements or accolades, again someone who brags a lot is just annoying   .
15. Behaviour that disregards the safety of others. your safety is important so reckless behaviour is not only undesirable on 121seniordating.com, but is dangerous and should be avoided. Repeat violent behaviour should not be tolerated and neither should theft as this is a serious red flag.
16. Safety is very important when you are dating as senior so if you notice any of these behaviours you need to be cautious while meeting this senior dater. Online dating allows you to communicate online and it is suggested that you communicate online for as long as possible before moving to other ways of communication as staying online is safer and allows you to get to know your senior date on 121seniordating.com better before you commit to meeting in person.

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