It can be puzzling to decipher the way that senior daters feel about meeting other senior daters. Reading some of the dating diaries that online daters write can leave you even more confused. If you call or text to often you are needy and pushy. If you don’t call enough, you’re disinterested and not romantic. Even forty plus daters can be game players.

Figuring out what is going on in the mind of a senior dater can pose a challenge too far for many daters and the frustration that I read in the diary entries confirm that I am not alone in this regard. How do you deal with the confusion that can arise from dating when you are a forty plus dater on 121seniordating.com. Humour is important when you are dating and being able to laugh at the strangeness of dating is a very important aspect of senior dating. To be able to just pause and laugh will give you time to think and it also breaks any awkward silences.

It is my experience that forty plus women are generally happily single and are just interested in faithful intimacy and companionship and if that is a step too far for any forty plus single man then they shouldn’t really be online dating. Most senior single suffer with nerves on a first date so do not drink too much as you will need to keep your wits about you and be in a position to understand the body language and the subtle signs that are given out by your date. This is an important learning time so take it easy and don’t overindulge. You also need to be aware that just as you are watching your date carefully so will they be watching you and looking for signs that show your deeper personality.

A kiss goodbye will be enough to show interest but don’t go further than that as you need to get to know each other first and this is just the start of the learning process. Create your 121seniordating.com profile for senior single dates and finding mature friends and like-minded mature companions.