After finding your lover on 121dates.com and you both agree that you are in a loving relationship, you are both looking at different ways to show and express your love for each other.

Saying the words ‘I love you’ is music to the ears, but there are other ways to demonstrate through actions and attitudes the feelings you have. Consider these:

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• When it comes to love, when you are in a dating relationship, it’s all in the details. Your tone of voice, a loving and admiring look, a kind word are all loving experiences. A genuine compliment can be more beneficial than an expensive weekend getaway, or jewellery.

• Showing that you care by being interested and being fully present and engaged with your 121dates.com lover is a sure way to demonstrate your love. Being tolerant and not being a bully and argumentative will build a stronger relationship.

• Learn to apologise when you are wrong, this is not a sign of weakness it shows strength of character. Accept apologies when they are given graciously and choose your words and use gentle and positive as these will make your partner feel loved and treasured rather than judged and condemned.

• Find out what makes your partner feel loved and valued as it may not be the same things that make you feel loved as we are
  all different and need different things in a relationship.

• If you know there are things that you do that really wind your partner up then change your behaviour so that you avoid that flash point and your life and relationship will grow stronger as both of you learn to appreciate each other.

• Everyone could use a helping hand with the routine chores of daily life now and then. Nothing says that you care, better than getting stuck in to the everyday chores and ensuring that your partner has a lighter load.

• Everyone appreciates an unexpected gesture of love. Send flowers for no particular reason. Put a love note on your partner’s sandwich box. Put their favourite fruit or chocolate in for their lunch. Offer to take them to an event and collect them so that they can enjoy a drink without having to worry about driving.

• Provide the encouragement and support that makes the difference and gives them self confidence to try something new and when they do be their cheerleader. Praise them in public and make them feel important. Show up for important events and times when they are worried and need your strength and support.

If you live kindly and in a considerate manner you will be living in a loving way and this will ensure that you are both happier and make your romantic life smoother. Ensure that you defend your 121dates.com partner through thick and thin.

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